Thursday, December 2, 2010

A Tale of Two Flower Girls - Part Two

Everyone in the Ridge family was delighted when Andrew proposed to Sarah. While the girls that Andrew had dated before where super nice, Sarah seemed to be the perfect fit. We were even further delighted when Sarah called and asked Eliza to be a flower girl. We knew that she was a little young, but Sam, one of Eliza's favorite cousins, was also a flower girl. And, in the past, Eliza followed Sam like a little duck; therefore, we hoped that it would also be the case with the flower girl job.

We began preparing Eliza by reading tons of flower girl books. We discussed what she would do. Eliza even helped pick out her flower girl dress. She was very, very excited.

The wedding was two parts. On Friday, Andrew and Sarah were married in the DC temple. Eliza didn't really have any responsibilities this day, but she was a bit surly.

On Saturday, Andrew and Sarah were having a ring ceremony and reception at the Union League of Philadelphia. The day started well. Eliza let her Mimi (my mom) do her hair. She was excited to put on her dress and carry her flowers, but this is where the fun came to a screeching halt. We had to be at the Union League early to prepare. Eliza laid in Sarah's bed, but only got about half of her nap. Picture time came around and this is what we got:

She refused to stand with the wedding party (of which her dad was a party). She refused EVERYTHING! Time comes for her to walk the aisle for the ring ceremony. Here is the picture:
Wait! That's not Eliza you say! Well here is what Eliza was doing:
Like mother, like daughter I guess. I may have had a shiner, but at least I made it down the aisle and in the pictures. Here is an example group shot:
Yup, no Eliza again. This is the closest that we got:
Fail, fail, fail.
The reception starts and someone gets excited. Here she is welcoming the bride and groom.

By the time dancing comes around:




Did she make up for it? Welllll... I still feel like I should regularly apologize to Sarah, but thankfully, Sam was there to take up the slack. What have I learned? If I have any more girls, we do not accept flower girl positions!

3 comments:

Jeannie said...

What a funny story! Both parts! I thought for sure part 2 was going to detail how cooperative Eliza was compared to you and how much she lavished in all the fuss. I know how she loves dresses, etc.! Too funny it was such a fiasco.

Maddie has been asked to be a flower girl next autumn. She'll be almost three. I wonder if her story will be similar...

Amanda said...

Awwww!

Our flower girl, who was not quite 3 at the time, got scared and wouldn't go down the aisle without her mama, which we didn't mind. :)

Melinda said...

I can't help it, but Eliza's grumpy/pouty face makes me smile! She's such a doll!